Category: DEAR MxM

  • Dear MxM: Sir, I am only one of the four males in my office of 30 women. I feel I get ‘harassed’…

    By Jaisurya Das

     

    It’s lovely to be back with unarguably the best media and marketing site in the country. The MxM edge is its razorsharp news gathering, simplicity of reportage and most importantly its inherent ability to connect with almost every audience segment. Write in to me with your questions at editor@mxmindia.com and I will try and respond to them. Please put Dear MxM in the subject line.

     

    Sir, all global media bigwigs say that media is going digital. Even in India, various forecasts, digital media is growing very rapidly. But the numbers are really small, and there is no spectacular work being done in digital advertising. Is it the right horse to ride on?

    It’s not only the right horse but it’s a sure winner. Let’s not get into the numbers, but the fact of the matter is that India is a behemoth that is growing. Digital is replacing traditional media the world over. The younger digital generation members empower themselves with what interests them. Period.

     

    Inherent attributes of digital media, that is, customization, portability and the sheer depth of

    information at the press of a key make it a sure  jackpot winner. Internet and mobile data connectivity across our country will be its catalyst for success.

     

    Remember the best investments are made much before any brand, product or media is established firmly in the consumers mind.

     

    Go for it friend !

     

    I want to be a television journalist in Marathi, but all the good educational institutes teach in English. Should I take admission there – to an IIMC, Jamia or SIMC or should I just apply directly to the channel and learn on the job?

    That’s good to hear, since there’s always need for more sharp young journalists in the country. The fundamental principles of journalism and the fine nuances of broadcast are best learnt at a good institute. The language is just a medium of dissemination, so today it’s Marathi, tomorrow it could be Mandarin or Kannada next and yet you will be empowered and skilled enough to adapt to a new medium  of delivery and handle it with the same élan.

     

    Learn everything that it takes to make you a good journalist. That’s all that matters in separating the wheat from the chaff. Good luck !

     

    Sir, this is a personal question. I find that I am only one of the four males in my office of 30 women. The others are administration guys and office boys. Sometimes I also feel that I get ‘harassed’ for being a male in a women’s office. Should I look for another job?

    Why would you look for another job for this reason? Think for a momen: the tables are turned and it’s a male-dominated workplace, would you have thought the same way?

    Felling harassed is a state of mind and often because some insecurity creeps into one’s thinking.

    However if it’s bordering on sexual harassment or vindictiveness, it’s probably prudent to move on.  Think and act my friend. You’ll do fine. All the best!

     

    DearMxM will appear every Thursday. Write to our Consulting Editor Jaisurya Das at editor@mxmindia.com and please put Dear MxM in the subject line.

     

  • Dear MxM: While teaching my daughter, I figured I’m a good writer. What are career prospects for a creative writer? No, not a journalist…

    By Jaisurya Das [updated]

     

    Sir, in your comment published two weeks back, you wrote that there’s nothing wrong in getting inspired by ideas of other media companies. But whenever one has tried to suggest ideas to my boss, he and the team in general shoot it down saying it’s already done by competition. That we don’t want to be seen as a me-too. How do you counter that argument?

    It’s not easy I can imagine since it’s your boss. However, let me give you a few tips that could make it easier. First things first, don’t get demoralised since this is a fairly common problem that a lot of talented minds have to face and deal with. Be rest assured you’re not Home Alone!  🙂

    a. It’s imperative that you understand that marketing myopia needs to be corrected with the basics. Show them cases of brands across the world, all of which have been me-toos and yet were super-successful.

    b. Do not, I repeat, Do not present or even think of adopting an existing idea without improving upon it. It’s critical that you take effort, apply mind and create a new execution methodology for the base concept . Hence, get your act together and only then present or discuss what you have in mind.

    c. Please understand that adopting a successful conceptual base is no cakewalk. Creating winning brands takes more than deep understanding of  the science of marketing. Deft artistry that can splash the right hues on the palette of the consumers’ neural network is the clincher!

    Hope this helps.  All the best friend.

     

    Shouldn’t news media companies make it mandatory for only those with a basic management degree to join at the entry level. Good talent will help improve the media industry.

    Oh, boy! Whoever gave you this impression is far removed from the basic understanding of the word talent!

    If this belief is yours, I suggest you do a study and check for yourself as to how many of the top-end media professionals, across functions are armed with management degrees .

    Yes,  it’s a no brainier that management degrees from good schools, add tremendous value and perspective to the student. However, it’s a given that the student must possess a fundamentally strong academic upbringing, an open mind and an absolute willingness to learn!

    At the risk of sounding harsh, May I vehemently state that, believing only people with such qualifications define talent is a sign of ignorance!

    Get down from that pedestal of belief. Walk the streets of craft instead…

    Incidentally, yours truly is merely a graduate , and that too in hotel management, psychology and emergency medicine.

    Yes indeed , this columnist has walked the revered corridors of the best business schools , never as a student though….only by invitation , to share my learnings and presumably a few metered doses of wisdom acquired over the years.

     

    I am a housewife, 36 years of age. In the process of tutoring my daughter, I have realised that I can be good writer. I don’t want to be a journalist, but what are the career prospects for a creative writer?

    Great!!  In fact in the past decade, creative writing has seen a surge in our country and is today financially rewarding , unlike the past.  You are probably an avid reader as well , buying many a book  for the  amazing breed of vibrant , fresh and talented Indian authors.

    There is ample opportunity now as the publishers are far more inclined to take the plunge and give definition to fresh writing.  Online and print media features, provide an excellent platform too.

    Go for it young lady, and for all you know , you may soon be a household name!!! All the best!

    Have a super weekend friends……Dear MxM will be back next week , same day , same space.

     

     

    Send your questions to editor@mxmindia.com with ‘Dear MxM’ in the subject line. Please do note that our Consulting Editor and Dear MxM columnist Jaisurya Das will not respond to questions individually. Dear MxM will appear on MxMIndia every Thursday. Soon, we are considering having special live counselling lectures across colleges in the country. Write to editor@mxmindia.com for details.

     

  • Dear MxM by Jaisurya Das: Why are people from smaller towns considered 2nd class citizens in the job market?

    By Jaisurya Das

     

    Like every Thursday, senior mediaperson and counsellor Jaisurya Das responds to reader questions on careers and life in general with some practical and pragmatic tips

     

    I have relocated from one of the state capitals to Mumbai to work in an ad agency. I have around nine years’ experience, but I find that none of that experience is counted. I am an MBA, and I think I am as good as some of my colleagues. Why are people from smaller towns considered as second-class citizens in the job market?
    Not to worry my friend . master your craft and the career will follow. A myopic boss can be indifferent , give you a terrible appraisal and take your job away, but the craft is yours for keeps! No one can take that from you.

     

    The work experience you have, coupled with an MBA  ( provided that it’s from a recognised institution),  will certainly make a difference.

     

    Do not push so hard on the door looking for happiness, it opens inward! Master your craft. It’s not easy but walk that extra mile, my friend. You won’t regret it.

     

    I don’t know whether you are aware of the job market in West Bengal. My friend is from Asansol. He is truly creative. Is there scope for Bengali creative professionals?

    Where is the doubt young man?!  Some of the best creative professionals our country can boast off are Bengali.  Your friend must walk head high, and carry his portfolio with immense confidence.

     

    Please be rest assured that soon enough ,he will find his place and be in august company.

     

    My son is in Class 12. He wants to get into marketing. Is it better to do a BMS and then an MBA or do a BA or B Com and then later an MBA? Please advise.

    Certainly ma’am . It’s our raison d’être!

     

    If it’s marketing that he’s keen about , I would suggest he pursues  a regular BA/BCom , after which he can equip himself for the PG entrance exams.

     

    Ideally, in his second year of graduation , he should start working towards securing admission to the best B-Schools  ; IIM, XLRI, Bajaj , SIBM , FMS – Delhi etc.

     

    MxM India is proud to help with specially commissioned articles , case studies and incisive analyses that empower our readers day after day.

     

    Thanks indeed for the overwhelming response to Season 2 .  I am humbled beyond words.  I will certainly try and accommodate as many questions as possible.

     

    Ed, space permitting , can we ramp up to taking five questions ? I think we must…!  Look after yourselves,  and live life like never before !!! (Sure :- ) – Ed)

     

    See you next week, same day , same space.

     

    Dear MxM appears every Thursday. Mail your questions to Dear MxM at editor@mxmindia.com. Please put ‘Dear MxM’ in the subject line

     

  • Dear MxM by Jaisurya Das: Is there any formal training one requires to get into adsales?

    By Jaisurya Das

     

    Dear MxM is normally carried on Thursdays. Due to a technical hitch, we couldn’t carry this yesterday. So here goes. And we’ll be back next Thursday…- Ed

     

    Greetings! Welcome to the ‘New, Improved ‘ Dear MxM,

    Now fortified with our patented SI (Stress Inhibiting) micro-nutrients to give you extra bounce, radiance and confidence!

    Okay, so let’s get to the Q&A…

     

    My neighbour is excellent in writing, but is a college drop-out. She is interested in editing and subbing copy, and I have seen that she can make for a good desk hand. But she’s a drop-out after Class 12 and finds that most big employers do not employ non-graduates. Is this really so? And why?

    True, a degree from an UGC-approved university is mandatory nowadays and this is true of both large and medium corporates. It’s the primary filter used across functions in screening applications.

     

    This requirement can certainly be fulfilled, provided your neighbour is ready to take that effort. She should enrol to a credible UGC-approved open university like IGNOU etc . They offer a variety of subjects, provide course material as well as conduct contact programmes in most cities in India.  It may not be advisable for her to delay this any further, since entry-level requirements are only set to get more stringent in the days to come.

     

    All friends tell me I have a good face on news television but I only need to improve my diction. How do I do that, Sir? I live in Lucknow and there are no classes for diction here. I searched the internet, and found nothing in Delhi either. Please help.

    Am surprised there are no Conversational English (I presume the reference being made is to English diction ) classes in Lucknow and Delhi!

     

    All the same , you could ideally connect with the English department in the university who may have a database of spoken English tutors in your city. Recruitment firms (call centre specialists) will also help you with names of call centre trainers  who focus on sharpening diction, intonation etc .

     

    The trainers focussing in the UK process would be best suited for your requirement.

     

    There are also several audio/ video training DVDs which could help in giving you a quick start with your diction training. Crossword, Landmark and leading online booksellers like Amazon and Flipkart are all well-stocked with training material in the digital format.

     

    Sir, Is there any formal training one requires to get into advertising sales in TV channels and newspapers?

    Yes, it’s essential to have a good degree in order to even clear the application screening process. A normal graduation coupled with a PG degree or diploma in marketing / mass communication  / media studies/ advertising etc would make your entry simpler.

     

    However, the degree or PG in itself, cannot give you success in your career. You need to believe in what you are selling, put your heart into it and walk head high with pride. Focus on building your sales craft. Leave the rest to the rest!!

     

    My father works with a leading newsmagazine and I have telling him over the last two or three years that magazines are going to die given the various research reports I have read. My father still has five years before he retires, and I am worried about his future. Please advise. For your information, he’s in the the production function of the magazine, and he can’t move out to any other industry.

    My friend , I can’t seem to understand what pleasure you derive from giving your father sleepless nights year after year… The very fact that for the past three years nothing drastic as you cautioned took place should be reason enough to stop sermonising him. Magazines still exist, and in the same form!

     

    Experts and trained production professionals  like your father  handle all the rapid strides print production has taken over the years with immense skill and ease.

     

    Stop worrying about his future! Contrary to what you believe,  enough opportunity exists for competent production professionals and more so for those with his level of experience and skill. Why not seek some advice from him on your career pursuits??? You never know, he may surprise you with his wisdom and understanding of the marketplace.

     

    Dear MxM takes  this opportunity to wish all of you the very best life can offer !!  Have a great weekend and take care of yourselves. We will be back next week , same day , same space  with more questions , more answers!! And, thanks, Ed for scaling up to include additional questions!

     

  • Dear MxM by Jaisurya Das: Is it better that after marriage my wife and I should not work in the same organisation?

    By Jaisurya Das

     

    My boss says that I can’t rise very high as a client servicing executive because i am a postgraduate in commerce and not in management. He says I should do an MBA. What is your advice?

    Hi, first things first, don’t ever feel that your PG in Commerce is  in any way inferior in comparison to a PG in Management. On the contrary , it may turn out to be a huge advantage for you, when you are being considered for senior levels, especially those that involve profit centre management etc.

     

    Having said that, I second his view on pursuing your Masters in Management as well. This will not only build your perspective, but also catalyse your growth within the agency. Companies today look for such differentiators when it comes to hiring/ promoting their recruits. I know of a lot of companies today, where strict directives on this are given to the HR heads.

     

    Do remember that an added qualification will only fuel your progress, irrespective of the industry. So stop worrying and go for it, my friend!!

     

    I am going to marry a colleague from the office, who is also part of the sales team. I have been advised by various people that it is better that after marriage my wife and I should not work in the same Organisation. Sir, what do you suggest?

    Personally it’s not something I advocate. The same department  Is certainly not advisable . It would only end up being a constant source of discomfort to both of you. However professional both of you are , it’s not an easy task managing this proximity at work.

     

    The risks far outweigh the benefits, my friend . Am more than certain that both of you are more than equipped, to be hired elsewhere. That may end up being the turning point to fast track your sales career.

     

    I am told that the income rise is faster in the sales function than in marketing… In newspaper organisations, that is. I work with a leading newspaper and have just finished my training process and can decide  which department I should move to. What will you suggest? Thanks.

    This is true of almost every company today and rightly so. The sales team takes most of the heat both internally and externally day after day. In the sales function it’s almost a hire and fire scenario, with achievement of targets being the only parameter most of the time.

     

    You are as good as your performance the previous day! Wouldn’t you want to be compensated well as you ascend the steep stairway of recognition and success?

     

    The choice is left to you. Marketing as you know, encompasses  the sales function too. Listen to your heart my friend …forget about this never-ending race to acquire a bulging wallet. Believe me, wallets such only give you a chronic backache at the end of the day. Once again I repeat , master your craft and the career will follow !!!

     

    To a great weekend then! Take good care of yourselves I promise to be back same space, same day, with new thoughts and new answers! Yes, Thursday it will be. Amen.

     

  • Dear MxM by Jaisurya Das: I don’t want to suffer from sales target-led stress like my boss…

    By Jaisurya Das

     

    Good Ladies, Morning and Gentlemen !

    Oops! That doesn’t sound right, does it?

    Coming to think of it, why do we have to conform all the time? Why can’t we just sit back and live the little pleasures of life???

    Why do I have this strange feeling that we have stopped being selfish… and throwing ourselves to the sharks is now just as easy as a day at work?

    Can we afford the luxury of a five-minute break ?

    Did I just hear a Yes? Let’s do it then, and right now!

    Sit back, feet on ground (socks/shoes, etc all good!) and let your body relax, go as limp as you can…

    Let your hands rest comfortably on your lap… Take a slow deep breath………..hold……..and exhale…………

    One more time: Slow deep breath……………hold……..and exhale……………..

    Now that your body is more or less relaxed, allow your mind to wander……………. not for a moment stressing to keep it blank.

    Yes I know, an uncontrollable stream of thoughts are hitting your mind, one after the other……… Don’t try and resist them. Instead recognise each one of them and allow your mind to accept them. And let go of them unprocessed.

    Greek??? It’s fine, sit back and breathe normally! Will explain. Let’s assume at this very moment, a fresh thought reminded you of the client meeting scheduled at 15:00hrs.The time 14.35.

    You begin to collect your thoughts on what should be discussed, your rate offer, how much to stretch etc. Now this is a classic example of processing !!!

    Stop at the thought of a meeting less than an hour away. let go…. unprocessed .

    Sit back and relax. Gently shut your eyes and listen to every little sound that you hear.

    People, phones, the familiar creak of a chair, the rain lashing against your window and the faint bark of the neighbourhood dog.

    Just listen. It’s amazing, isn’t it? How each little sound is crystal clear and magnified. And to think these sounds were always there and yet we didn’t hear them.

    Five minutes? Gently open your eyes, take a slow deep breath and stretch your hands and legs. Now get up, splash some water on your face and you are ready for your meeting. Kill it, pal!

    Felt nice? Did I hear a Yes? Am happy. Very happy.

    May be the next time, you will want to do it for 10 minutes. And if I am lucky, a few times the same day.

    Meditation. As complex as it’s made out to be, can be as simple as listening to the sounds around you!

    It’s time to be selfish. Do this and for yourself this time. Stop worrying about the sharks. Believe me, they are well fed.

    Nostradamus is history. Who knows what lies ahead, my friend?

    Life is for Living. The World can Wait.

    Celebrate Life. You Deserve It.

    Do write in, if you believe this week’s Dear MxM made a difference. Thanks once again for believing in us .We honestly care.

    Time Out!

    Your Questions, Our Answers . Dear MxM Season 2 is here.

     

    My boss is suffering from stress-related issues given the heavy pressure of sales targets. I have discussed the issue with my HR department several times, but they just don’t understand. Frankly, I don’t want to suffer in the way my boss has when I reach his level. Please advise what I should do.

    Simple. Start celebrating life!!

    No cliché this. Don’t forget that the rat race that most of us    are pushed into is our own creation. Its manmade and that’s what makes it so difficult to negotiate!

    We excel in the unique art of complicating our own lives, creating one bogey after another. It’s about time we introspect and arrive at what we actually want from life.

    Relationships are shattered, families torn apart, children estranged .Even the unsuspecting dog in the family isn’t spared from the wrath of “The Great Indian Rat Race”.

    Hapless victims of stress brutally weaned from their hard earned embellishments of success!

    Looking back today, I ask myself if the pin-striped suit, the fancy cars and the cultivated persona of success truly mirrored my raison d’être. You think right, my friend!

    Stop pushing hard on the door looking for happiness. It opens inward. Celebrate life. Cheers!

     

    I have worked in a large media group in Nagpur and I now need to shift to Mumbai as my dad has got a job there. Sir, I met with a few media groups including my own office in Mumbai, and I was told that I will need to start at least two notches lower. This is very unfair. Sir, please advise what I should do. Thanks

    I am certain that myopic mindsets where craft and skill are ranked basis geographies only affect the company itself.

    Don’t worry, my friend. If you have what it takes, nothing can stop you. Don’t compromise beyond a point. Look beyond your current function. Am sure it’s just a matter of time before you get what you deserve. True craft can never let you down. All the very best!

     

    I have been leading a news bureau for some years and I now want to get into a business-y role. I don’t know what will happen in the future, but can you help me with any books that I should read in finance and marketing?

    That’s a tough question since there are over a million books that could be of help.

    For a start, you could read the biographies and works of business legends like Ratan Tata, Lee Iacocca, Akio Morita, David Ogilvy and Richard Branson etc.

    Besides making interesting reading, these books also empower you with a strong perspective of business and its facets like marketing, finance etc.

    Honestly, a good option would be associating/ partnering with someone who is already in business and proficient with finance etc. This will also give you the much-needed breathing space, when you are establishing yourself.

    The demand for quality content providers in online and print will only grow further giving you ample opportunity to pursue your business interests. All good wishes for your foray into entrepreneurship.

     

    Sir, I am an Indian but have studied in Dubai. I want to work in the Indian media as a journalist. Should I take up a job here and then seek a transfer or the other way around. Please advise.

    That’s good to hear! India is probably one of the most exciting media markets of the world. Indian media today can boast of the best minds in the industry be it content generation or marketing.

    Adding to this is a very mature, receptive, media-savvy audience that keeps the industry on their toes!

    It’s in your best interest to take up an assignment here considering the sheer exposure you would get. There isn’t a better training ground that I know off.

    Time to pack your bags, my friend!

    Welcome to unarguably the best media market of the world. Jai Hind.

     

    Have a stupendous weekend and take good care of yourselves. We will be back next week, same day, same space.

     

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  • Dear MxM by Jaisurya Das: If I am asked in an interview who is my role model, what should I say? I don’t want to say it’s Mahatma Gandhi…

    By Jaisurya Das

     

    Sorry about missing out on last week. The laptop crashed and some other engagements ensured that I could turn in your answers because of another commitment. But we now have a bank and write a week ahead, leaving enough time for contingencies. Meanwhile and without further ado: Your Questions. Our Answers, Ruthlessly Candid. Because We Care.

     

    Sir, I am the same person who asked you about the new CEO in my media company. Some of my colleagues don’t agree with your response. They say that the owner has given him a long rope. The honeymoon period will last at least a year. My concern is that in this one year, we could run into irreversible growth. What should I do?

    The time has come my friend. You must move on before it gets the better of you.  I know how tough it is, yet at times,it pays to be selfish.

     

    “Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway. For you see, in the end, it is between you and God.”

     

    Do I need to say more ?

     

    Sir, I want to be a marketing executive in a newspaper and am due to complete my MBA next week. In my internship, I was asked a question on who my role model is from the media fraternity. I said Rupert Murdoch and got slammed. Then I gave the name of a few Indian media owners, and I was cross-questioned again. I know you can’t give me the name of who should I say is my role model, but still what is a safe name to give in an interview. And, unlike beauty pageant contestants, I don’t want to say Mahatma Gandhi is my role model! LOL

    The undersigned has granted you the permission, to declare that he is your Role Model. This permission is being granted strictly for non-commercial purposes only .

     

    I trust the query has been answered to your satisfaction! J

     

    I hate to admit it, but you have me completely stumped on this one!  I don’t even know what qualities I should be looking for in a potential role model! However, if someone were to ever ask me this, I would probably have said that, I was my own role model. In any case, in today’s world, there is no legacy to ride on. You are finally as good as your previous day’s performance.

     

    They make leaders now, not mentors. I was lucky I had a mentor who believed in me. He still does. I explored, experimented and delivered. I knew he was there if ever I messed up. They don’t make people like that anymore. Thank you, Sir. God is kind.

     

    Sir, you wrote you are a hotel management graduate. If you have give the ‘menu’ of a successful media manager, what would it be (like 100 gms of confidence, 200 gms of knowledge etc etc)?

    Simple. Good luck, gift of the gab, survival instinct , academics, skill,honesty of purpose and the passion to learn, to excel. The proportions don’t matter. Just do what you like with all of this.

     

    It will turn out well. Go for it. All the best.

     

    See you next week ! Take good care of yourself. Your Questions, Our Answers.

     

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  • Dear MxM by Jaisurya Das: There is no committee for sexual harassment complaints in my organisation…

    By Jaisurya Das

     

    Here we are. Your Questions. Our Answers. For, we care.

     

    Sir, I joined my organisation a few months back and find that there is no committee to look after sexual harassment complaints as per the law. While I don’t see any specific sexual harassment cases in my organisation right now, as a woman, the existence of a committee is reassuring that there is some forum to take care of your rights. I am an entry-level executive and don’t want to harm my chances. What should I do?

    Hi, and Thanks for writing in to Dear MxM. You are absolutely justified in expecting your company to have complied with the law and constituted a sexual harassment committee. If at all you are discussing this, do so only informally rather than coming across as someone, who has pre-conceived notions of her work place.

     

    This is the time for you to put your best foot forward,make a mark and create an unique niche for yourself. Focus on your craft my friend. All the rest will fall into place committee included!!

     

    Stop worrying .The world isn’t as bad as it seems

     

    My boss is the best salesman I have ever seen. But just as he’s good, he also has a mercurial temperament. I tried to get him to meditate as you recommended a few weeks back, but he isn’t able to do it. I have spoken to the boss’s wife and asked her to take him to a shrink, but she’s not sure it’s a good idea. What is your recommendation

    A mercurial temperament could actually be beneficial to your boss’s health. Contrary to popular belief, most often it’s the people with a calm exterior that get hit hardest . Mental ailments such as anxiety, mood swings, alcoholism, depression etc are all become rampant now.

     

    Getting back to your query, personally the decision to consult a psychiatrist is not something you or me can take standing on the periphery. I would imagine his wife would know best !

     

    Why not leave this decision to his family? There will only do what is best for him, keeping in mind all factors.

     

    Sir, I was a confirmed employee until last month when management offered me a contractual employment with hike in salary. While I am happy about the money, the job-in-perpetuity safety net has gone. What is your view on both the options?

    To be honest I can’t think of any job today that can offer you both safety and permanence. Eventually what matters is your happiness and satisfaction!

     

    My advice would be to accept the contractual employment and forget about the  detail.

     

    You have given your best all these years. Now you are getting paid for it. Enjoy the raise my friend. Take care and all the very best.

     

    I called the MxMIndia office with a desire to meet with you for counselling. But I was told you live in Pune and Bengaluru and we can’t meet you. What is the truth? Can we do a Skype consultancy?

    Justice is served. The Truth is finally out in the open. I am a gypsy and I shuttle between towns and cities. Boundaries are for the cartographers or so i believe.

     

    Yes, we can certainly meet but before that, i would need to have a few details and hence request you to mail me at editor@mxmindia.com. Given the personal and confidential nature of one to one counselling, I am constrained to list the details required in this column. I trust all of you understand.

     

    Have an Exciting & Happy Weekend! I will be back next week with ‘New & Improved’ Answers.

     

    Jai Hind! (sometimes i wonder why the public at large,desist from using this salutation to our country more often. It’s our INDIA after all). Amazingly Proud To Be An Indian…….

     

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  • Dear MxM by Jaisurya Das: Is the rule of disallowing a husband & wife to work in same co legal?

    By Jaisurya Das

     

    Hello and Welcome back to this week’s Dear MxM; Your sounding board 24/7, 365 days a year.

     

    May I request our readers and friends to join us in observing a minute’s silence to pay our respects to the world’s finest mind and a thought leader par excellence. Arise my friends… Thank you.

     

    Meanwhile, your Questions, our Answers… Read on!

     

    Last week, my HR department slapped a new rule at me saying that either my boyfriend or I have to quit the organisation because the company does not encourage employment of the husband and the wife working in the organisation. I think the rule is unfair as we were unmarried when we were joined. Sir, is this rule legally tenable? Please advise.

    Hello and thanks for writing in to Dear MxM!

     

    Am sorry to disappoint you my friend but yes this is a corporate policy/diktat which is tenable in a court of law.

     

    It May be further noted that: Signing of an Appointment Order/ Employment Contract /Document Is Deemed to be the Prospective Employee’s Complete Comprehension/ Understanding and Acceptance of the Terms & Conditions of the said institution/ company/AOP etc.

     

    I have, for the sake of this example assumed, that both of you have signed a document of appointment, after being shown the entire content of the same. My honest advice to you is to explore new career opportunities in the market. For all you know, both of you may land terrific jobs, rendering your current employment seem like a mere detail for the CV.

     

    I would urge you to stay clear of any legal process, as this may be detrimental to both your existing and future employment. It may interest you that the undersigned has experience in handling such a case on behalf of the media house i worked with. On more than occasion, the Hon.Court of Law ruled in the company’s favour.

     

    I work as a journalist with a leading English channel currently having operations in only one language. But I understand going forward with the channel’s plans to merge operations with a Hindi channel​, only those who are bi-lingual will be retained. This could be endless. Finally the management will want us to be fluent in 10 languages. What is your view on this?

    Greetings! It’s obvious that you are viewing this from a very negative  perspective. My apologies for being candid on this, but this is what we are about. We say what we have to, but only because we care for you.

     

    Reading your mail, I was instantly transported to the dense jungles of Africa where the pro-active shoeseller set foot upon, only to reinvent the need for footwear. The rest is history….

     

    I wish you all success ahead. And yes, if you wish to give this thought, then list down the potential opportunity this multi-lingual TV house is giving you on a platter.

     

    By Jove! Wake up, my friend!! Negativity has no place on a career roadmap.

     

    I am nearing retirement but am fit as a fiddle and believe I can work for the next 20 years. What is the scope for employment for a 58-year-old as a marketing professional in the media?

    Hello Sir! I am honoured that you have written in to us at Dear MxM Welcome aboard the MxM family. Join us in our endeavour to infuse hope, determination, positivity and good cheer in our fraternity.

     

    Indeed Sir, There is always ample scope for a seasoned professional like you. I am surprised that your current employer has not offered you an extension / new assignment post the date of retirement. Such energy and enthusiasm, is difficult to come by today, despite the average age having plummeted down in most media houses.

     

    I would attribute this to both myopic vision of the principal shareholders/ CEOs as well as their lack of skill, in distinguishing the wheat from the chaff. Age is probably a limiting factor if you are at the controls of a formula car/fighter planes, Fitness I understand but calendar age in marketing??

     

    My apologies to my good friends who own/ lead media companies but I am a maverick. You branded me so. I must live it to the hilt!

     

    All good wishes, Sir. Do let us know if we can be of any assistance to you ever.

     

    Have a stupendous weekend my friends. Live it with reckless abandon for we will be back with you next week , same space . Yes with New Questions and Brand New Answers !

     

    Do take good care of yourselves. Goodbye for now!

     

  • Dear MxM by Jaisurya Das: My sister is going around with a journalist. But do journos earn well? Do I discourage her…?

    By Jaisurya Das

     

    Good Morning! Welcome to Dear MxM. India’s very own ‘Agony Aunt’ for the media and advertising fraternity. It’s Q&A Time: Your Qs n Our As.

     

    I know it’s a stupid question to ask, but as a professional who is going to be graduating in the next two years, I would like to know this: which is the best city to be in if you wish to work in the media, especially in the marketing and sales domains.

     

    Far from stupid young man. It’s your career after ! If you ask me, it’s best to start off in a smaller place.  This provides the much-needed grounding to the young professional. One tends to work more diligently when you’re dealing with small clients etc. Networking and building lasting relationships is often best done at a smaller market.

     

    Remember, you’re the big fish in the small pond. Swim with elan but work with that extra bit of dedication and passion. Demonstrating your latent talent at sales and Marketing is essential…Top this with honey smooth Client Service, and you have an absolute winner. Yup, that’s you my friend. All the very best.

     

    This is a very personal question, but since you don’t disclose identities, I guess it’s okay to ask in a public forum. My sister is going around with a journalist and is considering marrying him. We are from a business family, and my parents say that journalists don’t do too well financially if they are operate ethically. It’s still early days in their relationship, so do you think we should discourage her from going ahead. Don’t worry, I won’t hold you and MxM India responsible… but it’s just that after being used to all the luxuries of life in our home, if the man in her life is not able to take care of her material needs, she may have problems.

     

    While I do understand your concern as a brother, I must add that your parents’ perception of a journalist is unfortunately very warped. Yes, journos spend their best hours at work and they drink tea and coffee excessively, they do earn respectably unlike what it’s being made out to be.

     

    In fact there are senior journalists in our country who earn salaries that can put many a CEO to shame.  I know this may sound like a letdown but this is the Plain Truth! Don’t forget that even though you may find one Rotten Egg in a crate of 100, it’s not necessarily the poor bird’s fault is it??

     

    She’s your sister. Credit her with some sense, reason and intellect too.  I wish her all happiness in her married life. God bless the young couple. May they Live happy and with Dignity and Aplomb.

     

    Sir, I have just completed my training period in a leading channel. While I am quite excited by the HR function, esp since it requires the dealing with various stars and creative folk, I am not sure if HR has much potential career-wise. Please advise.

     

    Hello and thanks for your interest in Dear MxM. We are more than happy to be of help.  Unlike what you may think, the HR function is vast and offers tremendous opportunity. If you are a person who is enthralled by people, then it’s HR for you.

     

    By the way, dealing with film stars and celebrities are part of your responsibilities by virtue of your current role in a channel. This is not a default responsibility in the HR function.  I am not too sure, as to which facet of HR interests you, but there is no shortage of excitement in this subject.

     

    Recruitment, Staffing,Training & Development, and Organisational Development form the backbone of the Human Resource Management function.  It’s upto to you to master the craft of true excellence..The opportunities are plenty and it’s across industries, geographies and people. As I always say, Master the Craft. ..The Career will Follow !

    It has to. Go Rock it Friend.

     

    I was a star reporter with a leading regional newspaper in Tamil Nadu. Now my family is shifting to Maharashtra. I realise I can’t be a reporter there because I am not comfortable with Marathi or Maharashtrian language (whatever it is called) and Hindi. What should I do. I don’t want to leave my parents as they age…

     

    Hi and Thanks for writing in to Dear MxM. Yes you got it right the first time. It is Marathi!

     

    It’s really heartening to hear, that you’re forsaking a good job to look after your parents. I sincerely pray, that we see more sons and daughters who have such values. God Bless you always.

     

    Coming back to your concern, I personally think it a good idea to talk to your present employers and work out a role for you in Maharashtra.

     

    Not only would they benefit from your craft and experience but also be a catalyst to establish yourself in Maharashtra. Contrary to public belief, the State is still a Mecca for most professions.

    Welcome to Maharashtra, my friend. You will rock.

     

    Well, as they say, all good things must come to an end…But do not despair ! We will be back next week, same day, same space.  You guessed right, New Questions, Super New Answers… Meanwhile, please keep your questions flowing in at  editor@mxmindia.com and please put ‘Dear MxM’ in the subject line

     

     

     

  • Dear MxM by Jaisurya Das: My friends are dissuading me but is it okay to tie a Rakhi to my boss?

    By Jaisurya Das

     

    Welcome to this week’s Dear MxM. Your one and only forum for asking professional and as we see this week, some crazy personal questions!

     

    Sir, my daughter is considering a career in the media. At the undergraduate level, would you recommend a BMM, BMS or a BBA course or one of the traditional undergraduate programmes?

    Hello ! Thanks for writing in to Dear MxM. Happy to hear that your daughter is considering a media career. I would ideally have liked to have some more information on her specific interests in the media domain etc, nevertheless let me try and give you a better perspective.

     

    A Bachelor in Media Studies from a reputed institute would certainly help her build a strong foundation for a career ahead in Media. This would also help her in terms of employability straight after her graduation.   In fact, good institutes today boast of excellent placements , what with all the leading media firms making a bee line to get the cream of the batch.

     

    I must however add that doing a regular degree i.e. Bachelor of Arts, followed by a PG in Media / Communication is also a good option, provided she’s not planning to start her career post graduation.

     

    Dear MxM would be happy to guide her, should she require any further inputs.  All good wishes to her for a great career in Media ; the industry with never a dull moment !

     

    I am a journalist and am considering switching to PR. Your advice?

    Hmmm ; Not enough bylines ? Or is it the remuneration ? Or genuine love for the PR industry ? I sincerely hope that you are really keen on the PR industry, else it can be very monotonous for a good journalist.

     

    One of the important KRAs is to build strong relationships with media houses and journalists in particular. I presume you are much liked among your peers!

     

    PR as an industry is doing fairly well and hence from a career perspective, it’s certainly worth looking at. All this, is assuming that you have decided to foresake the adrenalin of the journalistic domain.

    Be well, my friend. All the best.

     

    My client is a well-known automobile brand. Since the product hasn’t sold as expected, he’s considering changing his creative agency which will affect my employment. Do you think I could change his mind?

    Well, that depends entirely on his analyses and reasoning behind the poor sales.

    Irrespective of what you may possess in terms or sales acumen or advertising excellence, it’s finally the product that drives sales. If you have a bad product, sweet nothing will help sell it.  Advertising is a critical catalyst in the marketing plan and hence it needs regular review to ensure maximum efficacy.

    If you swear by your agency’s work and quality, convince him to stay. If not, be fair and let him go get his money’s worth elsewhere !

     

    Sir it’s Raksha Bandhan on Saturday, and I feel like tying a Rakhi to my boss. While he is a cool guy, my colleagues are dissuading me. Your view, Sir?

    Wonders will never cease will they…!!

    Young lady, I do hope you understand the True meaning and Sanctity of Raksha ZBandhan. I honestly don’t know how Good or Bad your rapport with the Boss is, but I can certainly tell you, that this is just short off professional sacrilege !

    What do you expect to achieve ? If it’s genuine sisterly affection, then why ask…

    I do hope better sense will prevail upon you this Raksha Bandhan. Amen.

     

    Ladies & Gentleman, Have a Wonderful Weekend ! Take Good Care Of Yourself. 

    Yes, we will be back next week with new Questions, Ekdum Taaza Answers & More….

    Dear MxM Because We Care.

    Send in your questions to editor@mxmindia.com with Dear MxM in the subject line

     

  • Dear MxM by Jaisurya Das: My boss says I am no good because I am unable to undertake ‘settings’ for adsales

    By Jaisurya Das

     

    Social media has taken over our lives. I was at an interesting conference last week and while some presentations focussed on social media, almost all the others mentioned it. The thousand-strong audience were rapt in attention, yet took time off to post photographs and snippets to their social accounts.

     

    I noticed that an informal interaction between Bollywod’s icon Shah Rukh Khan and Karunya, the gushing fan went viral within minutes. In fact, even before she returned groggily to her seat!

     

    Life isn’t ours anymore.  It’s more and more inclusive as the days go by, much like the Selfie Revolution, more often than once, creating an occasion when there isn’t any !

     

    I would imagine it’s very tough to always be your photogenic self, ever-prepared for that selfie… stick or otherwise. The line between personal and public is blurred by the immense reach of the Social Media platform, where everyone is a Celebrity.

     

    Page 3 has lost its meaning. It’s people too. Social has taken over our Lives. Amen.


    Well, no more time for hypotheses. Cut to this week’s Questions and Our Answers:

    Last week, my boss told me that I am no good at work because I am unable to undertake ‘settings’ for sales contracts. Basically, he meant that I should be ready to bribe clients and/or media planners so that I can get ads? Does this really happen? Can you advise how I should go about it?

    Greetings! Thank for writing in… and how!

     

    Once this column goes live tomorrow, two possibilities exist ;

    1. Yours truly is ostracised from the fraternity with a few broken bones for good measure. Obviously I will cease to exist as the ‘MxM Agony Uncle’ either.

     

    2. You my friend, get fired, fried and fed to the falcons.

     

    But, jokes apart, I wouldn’t work at such a company long. If they do resort to such methodology to get business, it is obvious their brands have no intrinsic value to offer to its constituents.

     

    If selling means greasing palms (or so your boss claims!), then it’s worse than the worst of roles to be in. Fortunately my friend, this is not the case.

     

    I would suggest that you start examining options in the market in order for you to be part of a professional work environment. Believe me, there are numerous corporates that can give you a enriching work environment. All the very best to you.

     

    Sir, why is it that IIT-IIMs are treated with awe and given such respect when they actually don’t bring too much to the table in terms of knowledge?

    I wouldn’t agree with you on this. A majority of IIM graduates do bring a fair amount of knowledge to the table. I have personally hired and worked with them, and it would be unfair to say they are not equipped.

     

    As far as the awe and respect is concerned, it is entirely based on the environment they are in. They are quick on their feet, have strong soft skills, clearly analytical and also strong on the financial aspects of business.

     

    Hence, am not too sure how you have this impression about the IIMs. In fact I would go a step further and urge you to enrol for one of their executive programmes. This will not only hold you in good stead from a career point of view, but also give you a better perspective of the IIM acumen.

     

    Does one have to have done a special course so as to get a job as a Media Planner and Buyer?

    Yes, ideally a qualification in media management would give you the edge during the recruitment process.

     

    Experience in advertising sales, with a large credible media house is also valued for media planning/ buying jobs. Media planning involves a lot of number-crunching and negotiation skills making it a fairly specialised job.

     

    Hence, go for it provided you have the acumen , patience and the ability to negotiate the life out of people!

     

    The world is your stage. Play on.

     

    My boss is a veteran in the business and is well-respected by everyone in in the industry. Every Diwali, I find his cabin flooded with gifts. More than feel happy about it, I am embarrassed. Please help in clearing my misgivings.

    Am very happy to hear of your sentiment on this horrible practice. This is nothing short of accepting bribes from people and is undoubtedly despicable professional conduct.

     

    I must add that both parties are equally responsible in this case. While one will take his pound of flesh, the other will compromise the values of the company he represents.

     

    People often forget that the market loses all its respect for the individual, making them a pawn in the armtwisting game. Stay far away from these practises, however festive them may be.

     

    Buy your own dry fruit box. It tastes better. Always. Cheers my friend. Be well.

     

    Thank you Readers for the overwhelming response week after week. Somewhere we must be doing something right! Do let us know if you think otherwise… Do take good care of yourselves.

     

    Till we meet next week then, Sayonara it is.

     

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